It's an amazing story, Jonathan Paul Manziel freshman
quarterback from Texas A&M, Heisman Trophy winning freshman quarterback
from Texas A&M. Johnny Manziel, also known as, "Johnny Football"
has lived a charmed life. A talented athlete and the first freshman ever to
receive the coveted best college football player of the year award, the
"Heisman Trophy."
Manziel was a gifted athlete playing golf, baseball,
basketball and his best sport, football.
He received practically every high school award honor there is, playing wide
receiver and quarterback at Tivy high school in Kerrville, Texas. After leaving
Kerrville for College Station and Texas A&M and a college career at
quarterback, he tore up the field as a red-shirt freshman. Everything seemed to be coming up roses and
Johnny Football impressed everyone in NCAA D1, but most of all… Johnny
Football was busy impressing Johnny Football.
Fame had come on a fast track for Manziel, and he was quickly anointed the (BMOC) big man on
campus at College Station from almost day one.
Unfortunately, he never had the grounding influences from his parents at home to teach him the virtues of; humility, temperance, prudence and Self-discipline; the things you would hope for a 19-year-old young man on a meteoric rise to fame... Instead, the teenage Manziel had already
fallen in love with the mirror.
The way that things are changing in college and pro sports,
it was just a matter of time before high school football would be a driving force in the lives of young men far before they ever played before 80,000
screaming fans in some of the most storied college stadiums in the nation. In Texas, high school football is huge. It's virtually a religious category for Texas families and every parent hopes that their son or sons take to football like a fish
takes to water. For many young high
school footballers, their parents require football first and schoolwork second. It's that crazy and the
media creates a sentiment of football romance thought for every young boy to dream of
going to state and becoming the town hero, or maybe even the state hero, like Johnny Football. Manziel could practically write every chapter of his Texas football story and it read like a bestseller, and it didn't stop in high school.
Now, Johnny Football has not only become nationwide, it's
become a Manziel legally owned family trademark. In a year or so, Johnny
Football will be a moneymaking, national brand for the 21-year-old. In College Station, Texas, Johnny Football; hats,
banners, pennants, T-shirts, ice chests, and bobble heads are filling the
shelves at the A&M college bookstore almost as high as Manziel's ego stands.
Stadium seat pads and Johnny Football Fatheads will be filling the shopping
carts of fans all across the Lone Star State.
It's almost certain that Manziel will be an early first
round selection in the 2014 football draft.
He's already declared himself eligible and unless he tanks his sophomore
season, which is unlikely, he will be the number one talk of New York City when
Radio City Music Hall opens up to the hype and pomp of the NFL Draft.
On June 29, 2012,
before he was chosen as Texas A&M's starting quarterback and before his
first college game, Manziel was arrested and charged with three misdemeanors—disorderly
conduct, failure to identify, and possession of a fictitious driver's license.
These charges stemmed from a late-night fight in College Station, Texas. In July 2013, he pled guilty for failure to
identify, and the other two charges were dismissed. As part of the plea
agreement, he must pay a $2,000 fine and $232 in court costs, which shouldn't be difficult for Mr. and Mrs. Johnny Football (his parents) to pay this one off for him, they have money and he will likely learn nothing from that hiccup in his young life. The agreement
also stated that he had to spend two days in jail, but he won't have to since
he had already served time following his arrest in June 2012. In Texas, high school football is such a phenomenon, that if Manziel did spend time any significant time in jail, he would probably do it playing Xbox football with; the judge, bailiff, his lawyer and the mayor.
Manziel told police he was with a friend who directed a
racial slur at a man on the street. The
man then approached the two of them trying to aggressively get at the friend. Manziel
claimed that he tried to place himself between the two men, saying his friend
didn't mean it and he was going to take him home. The man continued pushing against Manziel to
reach the other, and eventually Manziel pushed back. At this point, the man swung at Manziel who
then began fighting back and the melee was on. Shortly
afterward, the campus bicycle patrol officers arrived. Manziel, who at the time was 19 years old,
presented a fake Louisiana driver’s license to police officers, showing himself
to be 21 years old. Manziel was taken into custody
and reportedly spent the night in a jail cell... "Reportedly".
It's only been one season of Johnny Manziel as "the Texas
A&M Aggies starting quarterback" and already there have been reports
of discord and discontent, by Johnny and Texas A&M campus police. One of
the more popular topics among the college football fans around College Station
involved a tweet left on Manziel's official Twitter account. On June 15, 2013,
Manziel tweeted; "Bullshit like tonight is the reason why I can't wait to
leave College Station... Whenever it may be," that sparked much controversy.
Manziel deleted the tweet later that night, and responded later saying he loved
College Station, but asked people to "walk in his shoes.” Sources say the
original tweet was influenced by a parking ticket he received on campus.
Shortly after the tweet of discontent, Manziel was arrested.
July 15, This off-season, Johnny Manziel was personally
invited, by; Archie, Peyton and Eli Manning, to be a special counselor at the
"Manning Passing Academy" in Thibodaux, Louisiana. This is considered
the premier quarterback camp in the country for teenage students, grades 8 to
12, and a thrilling once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for young quarterback
hopefuls to meet all three of the great NFL Manning's that played pro football,
(not to mention) some of the other great quarterbacks of pro-and college
football. Just being invited to take
part in this prestigious event is a great honor.
Johnny Manziel rewarded the Manning family by
missing practice assignments and other meetings and camp activities without prior
notice. After missing more than one
commitment, Peyton and Eli met with Manziel and it was announced that the
Heisman Trophy winner would leave the Manning Academy early. Manziel stated at the SEC media day that it was, "a mutual decision" for him to leave the camp. After the incident was announced to the
media, it was reported that the 20-year-old Manziel was seen drinking at a
local bar and was believed to be inebriated.
The second day after Manziel missed another commitment, his father
reported that, "his son was "Dehydrated" and would not be able
to honor his commitment. Speculation by
fans and media reporters was that a long night of drinking at the
bar left him dehydrated and not fit to be involved with Academy
activities. Johnny Manziel was
interviewed after the Manning Camp, at the annual SEC media day by ESPN. He was
asked a series of questions related to his failures at the Manning Camp, and
here are a few, Q&A's
Q: "Why did you miss practice assignments and meetings
at the Manning Quarterback Academy?"
A: "I overslept because I forgot to charge my cell
phone alarm."
Q: "Were you drinking alcohol?"
A: “I don't want to get into specific questions about
that."
Q: “How can you explain some of the problems you've created
in your football career?"
A: “I’m 20 years old, I'm young and I've made mistakes, and
I'll make more mistakes and hopefully learn from them and hope to not make the same
mistakes over and over and over."
Manziel is just 20 years old, and he will be 21 this coming
December. He is still under-age for
drinking alcohol, yet has been seen partying and drinking by many
witnesses throughout his time at Texas A&M, and high school.
Some will condemn Manziel for his reckless living habits, while others will forgive him because what he is doing is not atypical of college students throughout the country. What really bothers me, is his lack of appreciation for the numerous opportunities and God-given athletic ability he has been blessed with. He has an inherent lack of respect for those who have helped him become the fantastic athlete that he is today. He seems to have no inherent appreciation or gratitude for the countless opportunities that he has been given by; his coaches and teammates at Tivy high school, and now we are witnessing a clear disrespect to the administration and the fans of Texas A&M,the school and people who made it possible for him to take the field and ultimately receive the honor of being a "Heisman Trophy" quarterback.
Some will condemn Manziel for his reckless living habits, while others will forgive him because what he is doing is not atypical of college students throughout the country. What really bothers me, is his lack of appreciation for the numerous opportunities and God-given athletic ability he has been blessed with. He has an inherent lack of respect for those who have helped him become the fantastic athlete that he is today. He seems to have no inherent appreciation or gratitude for the countless opportunities that he has been given by; his coaches and teammates at Tivy high school, and now we are witnessing a clear disrespect to the administration and the fans of Texas A&M,the school and people who made it possible for him to take the field and ultimately receive the honor of being a "Heisman Trophy" quarterback.
So, are we being too hard on 20-year-old Johnny
Manziel? Is he simply young, immature
and inexperienced? Should we give him a
"free pass" because of his youth and inexperience?
Should we look back at his childhood and examine the iniquities and
mistakes of his parents or perhaps their parents? Well…Maybe. Perhaps those questions can be answered by
the people who helped Russell Wilson climb to the height of his lofty goals and
dreams. You wouldn't have to go very far to find the source of Wilson's manners and respect. He would deflect all of the credit to his mother, and his [father], whom he unfortunately lost to a diabetes related illness. The point is, he has such a grounded and balanced understanding of his faith and the opportunities he's been given. How about Peyton and Eli
Manning, who both grew up in the huge shadow of, judgment and expectation, from
the great Archie Manning? Maybe it's
just best that we expect more from our young men and women of 18, 19 and 20
years old. Most of these gifted young
athletes spend somewhere between 6560 to 7300 days with their guardian or
guardians, and during this time isn't it expected that we learn something about
life during that period of time, whether it's through positive reinforcement or
full on abuse or neglect. There has to
be a point during that time in life where we learn the difference between right
and wrong. Not everyone has the ideal
nuclear family, with mom and dad, little brother and little sister, with a nice
big house, a picket fence and a dog named Lucky. However, I have a strong belief that
somewhere along that road of growing into an adult, we learn empirically the
difference between the things that are honorable and inherently righteous and
good and those things that are dishonorable and inherently evil or bad. It is a federal law that ALL children, kindergarten
through 12th grade, receive a minimum of a public school education. Even if a child's parent isn't present and
involved, there is a certain learning curve that we absorb as we go through an
educational maturation period in that 12 year period. Obviously, there are
going to be those children that have a seemingly natural progression of making
wrong choices and through punishment, learn, and those that learn by a reward
system of some kind that lead them in the direction of redeeming
achievement. Many colleges of thought
that will say it's all about the nurturing process of life that determines the
way a child develops in society, while others will say it's the natural
development of a human determines their path, and then there are those that
believe that both nurture and nature determine the development of a human being
in society. I find that I most closely
match the philosophy that we are molded and developed by both sources: One:
what we learn from those that, (sometimes by default), become our
"nucleus" or center of influence, and at the same time that nurturing
influence is constantly molded by a natural code of temperament given to us by
God, our Creator.
That being said, what makes Johnny Manziel, Ryan Leaf, Todd
Marinovich, and JaMarcus Russell so destined for failure, while; Peyton
Manning, Eli Manning, Drew Brees, Andrew Luck, RGIII and Russell Wilson
seemingly so destined for greatness?
Choices. It all seems
to be factored by the choices we make and the moments we choose to take the
"right path.” I believe that most
young males above the age of 12, know the difference between what is
"right behavior” and what is "wrong behavior" when the choice is
there to be made.
On July 3, 2013 San Francisco 49ers defensive end, Ahmad
Brooks, made the choice to get into his car and drive when he was extremely
inebriated, even though fellow teammate and friend, Lamar Divens, pleaded with
him several times to stay at his home and sleep off the alcohol, instead of
driving home drunk and endangering his life and the lives of everyone
unfortunate enough to encounter him on the streets. Instead of heeding his friend and teammate's
wise advice, Brooks instead beat Divens over the head with a beer bottle and
several more times with his fists, before threatening to brandish his pistol and
shoot him. Divens suffered just three
stitches in his head from the beer bottle beating, but worse than the cut in
his head, he was unable to keep Brooks from driving his car while impaired,
risking lives instead of making the right choice. So, what made Lamar Divens decide to try and
stop his friend from driving drunk and what made Ahmad Brooks choose to drink
and drive and assault a friend who is trying to save his life?
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Josh Brent |
Dallas Cowboys defensive end, Josh Brent, took the life of
his friend and former Illinois teammate, Jerry Brown, when he chose to drive
drunk. Heavily inebriated, Brent swerved
off the shoulder of an Irving, Texas Highway and flipped the car several times
killing Jerry Brown, but surviving the wreck, itself. He spoke with contrition and remorse of the
tragic death of his friend, and was subsequently released from the hospital and
also given bail so he could return to his home.
Josh Brent was ordered by a court justice not to drink alcohol or take
drugs, as part of his parole sentencing.
However, even the death of a close friend, Jerry Brown, didn't stop him from drinking
alcohol and smoking marijuana. These are
choices and Brent is of average enough intelligence that I believe he knows the
difference between right and wrong and what's legal and what is not legal. In addition, the judge ruled, the survivor Brent, coherent and
lucid enough to understand the ruling that he handed down and that he was aware
of the details of his bail hearing. So
why does Josh Brent continue to make bad choices?
As a complete dichotomy, I offer you one Russell Carrington
Wilson of the Seattle Seahawks. Wilson
had the same number of years that most other athletes live before becoming a
freshman in high school. He was 15 years
old when he had an epiphany; I don't know where he was at the time, perhaps in
third period geometry (I don't know), but somewhere along the way he decided
that if he became a professional athlete in baseball or football (he was
drafted in both pro-baseball and football) that he would foster a camp for
inner-city school aged kids, in five cities in the nation and he would fund these
five camps himself and he would do it for the
entire duration of his professional career. He wasn't thinking about partying, spending
money, doing commercials or benefiting from the awesome opportunities that
professional athletes are often given. He
wasn't thinking about the beautiful women that seem to surround rich and
successful professional athletes and he wasn't thinking about breaking records
and becoming famous. He was 15 years
old, not even through high school, and he was thinking of ways to give back to
the people and the communities that make professional sports possible for young
men and women with aspirations of working hard and achieving goals and
experiencing dreams. This is the way
that Russell Wilson thinks and it's the way that he thought years ago, before
he had achieved his goals and before his dreams were made real. Wilson knew that there is a way to achieve
goals and reach dreams and it required hard work, determination, a plan and a
vision of his long-term destination. He
felt destined to succeed because he understood the order of life and the things
that one must do to, not only succeed, but to make the successful journey feel
right, and good. Wilson continues to
live by a code of honor and that honor requires that he make the right choices,
regardless of whether it requires hard work and sacrifice. He is highly organized and ritualistic in his
preparation and like all great achievers; he remembers that to see your dreams
from a distance, you must stand on the shoulders of giants. Lastly, once you reach your life dreams, you
must never forget the Giants that allowed you to stand on their shoulders to
see your potential. What makes Russell
Wilson choose right from wrong?
I don't know what Johnny Manziel is going to do after
college. He may become a great
professional quarterback, or he might fizzle out the way that Ryan leaf and
JaMarcus Russell did, and after having so much potential for greatness. I do know that he won't become great on his
own and he will never become great if he continues to disgrace himself, his
family, and those who have helped him by offering the opportunity to make the
journey to his true potential. Right now
he is fueled primarily by his ego and his God-given ability to play the game of
football. In pro-football, ego and
natural athleticism won't get you through training camp, let alone, a
successful career. He's got a lot of
growing up to do, and he's got a lot of people around him that want to see him
succeed. Unfortunately, because of his
behavior, early on in his life, there are also a large theater of football fans
that would love nothing more than to watch his goals and dreams crumble and
disappear while he sits alone with his ego and his God-given talent. Now, he's got all the opportunity in the
world to prove his critics wrong and show his supporters that he is more than
just a spoiled boy who was given too much, too early and begin to believe the
press clippings he read of his high school days in Kerrville, Texas and the
raves of the masses who cheered for him as he played the season of his life and
received the greatest individual achievement in college football, the Heisman
Trophy, and at just 19 years old.
I believe that "Johnny Manziel" a.k.a. "Johnny
Football" needs to reach down deep within himself and somehow resurrect
"Jonathan Paul Manziel" the son of Michelle and Paul, and realize
that his parents and all the experiences of his young life, did indeed, teach
him the difference between right and wrong and start requiring more of himself,
and to choose the path of selflessness and humility. This would be a great start and I believe it
will take him a long way toward the kind of person that he really wants to
be. Someone that his parents, coaches,
friends and fans would be proud to see successful and happy. Right now, it's about 50-50, the people who
wish him success or bitter failure.
Johnny Manziel is the author of the life he has lived up to this minute,
and he will be the author of the days in his life that remain. I think his life story is destined to be a
New York times best seller, but he has to choose whether it's a young man's
plight to greatness, or a story of great opportunity that slipped through his
fingers and left him; broke, discouraged and alone. The great part is that there are success and
failure manuals written all the time.
Will he read the autobiography of Ryan Leaf "How I Destroyed A
Career and Wasted Countless Opportunities." Or the autobiography of Vince Lombardi
"When Pride Still Mattered."
After the events of 2012 and 2013, Johnny Manziel is likely going to be portrayed as a "Bad Apple" by some of the media and by a lot of the fans of college football. After reading this post, you'll probably see a specific theme that paints him as a trouble-making, self-centered, college diva who was born with a silver spoon in his mouth and hasn't earned the reputation that goes along with being awarded a coveted Heisman Trophy. As Manziel has reminded us numerous times in the last five days, he IS just 20 years old and has a lot to learn about the world and the life of a high profile SEC college quarterback. He's made some bad decisions, but because he's accomplished so much at his young age, it's brought along a comprehensive brand of scrutiny that most young men his age don't have to deal with. I don't dislike Johnny Manziel, but I could do without "Johnny Football" and I think it's a little early to start calling him the next Johnny Unitas before he's even strapped up his helmet well walked on an NFL football field. There have been many college prima donnas that left their university and entered the realm of the NFL, with the best football players in the world. However, pro-football is a place that separates the pretenders from the contenders and it doesn't take long to find the difference between one and the other. I think Manziel would do much better to remember "who he is" right now and show respect to the men who have proved themselves at the elite level of football. Coming into the Manning Quarterback Academy football camp like an anointed football God was probably not the best way to introduce yourself to a family that has been referred to as "Football Royalty". Archie, Peyton and Eli, have already proven that they are worthy of professional football elite. Each of them have been selected NFL All-Pro at the quarterback position and all have been selected to the NFL Pro bowl team multiple years. What's probably even more notable is that all of the Manning family quarterbacks earned the respect they've been given by what they did and what they continue to do on the football field. They are universally respected by everyone who plays or has played the game, and all three of the football greats are destined to be enshrined in the prestigious NFL Hall of Fame, first ballot inductees. Showing up in Louisiana to the Manning's Quarterback Camp, after a last-minute stop in Toronto to party and hang out with rapper Drake and NBA great, Lebron James, isn't the way you probably want to show respect to the people who might someday be responsible for helping you secure a lucrative NFL contract someday.
Lastly, it's probably practical to say that most, including myself, really couldn't care less whether Johnny Manziel or Johnny Football, does well or falls flat on his face. Frankly, with the behavior that he has had since high school and seems to be resonating through his young college career, I would say most would like to see him be "made an example of" as in a little karma. What goes around comes around, as a lot of people say, and if that is true… What does that say for Manziel? I don't know, I'm not particularly one of those to believe that justice always prevails, but sometimes it does and when it does, for some reason people feel validated for their feelings about players like Manziel. After all, he hasn't really done anything to endear himself to the "every day college football fan" and aside from his amazing performances on the field, he really doesn't inspire people with the kind of behavior that causes people to lift him up. Manziel, himself, has complained that he is on a pedestal and doesn't like it, and feels that he has a particularly difficult life because of his fame and notoriety as a college football quarterback, and even more notable because of his groundbreaking accomplishment, winning a Heisman Trophy as a freshman in college. I believe that those who willfully step into the spotlight of notoriety, know exactly what they're doing and not too long ago were likely dreaming of being in that very position someday. What boy, who loves sports, hasn't dreamed of one day, having tons of fans falling all over themselves to get his autograph or ask to have their picture taken with him? When you walk into the bright spotlight the way that Manziel has, partying with NBA stars, popular rappers and actors etc., you are willfully inviting everything that goes along with that spotlight of fame. Fame and notoriety always bring with it, the burden of losing anonymity and the freedom to do things as easily as common people in society. The trade-off is hopefully a lot of opportunity, money and attention from other people who were also of similar stature in the public eye. In more simple terms; nobody's going to feel sorry for a a young man who has the world on a string, given a free education and on the verge of cashing in on a professional career that is likely to eclipse tens of millions of dollars. Now is the time for Johnny Football to determine whether or not he can cope with the complication of being one of the more recognizable faces in America, or not. So far, he's not impressing me and from everything I've read, watched or heard, I'm certainly not alone. On the other hand, I do wish him well and I hope that he's able to reach deep down inside of his real self and begins to understand how fortunate he is and begins to appreciate that this is a process and he still has the choice whether or not he wants to take the baton of fame and run with it, or decline the complications of his positions and begins to live life like an ordinary 20-year-old young man. He has all the cards, now he just has to decide whether or not to place them on the table and cash in on a wonderful opportunity for free education and the chance to compete in the NFL as one of the few men talented enough to be paid well to play a sport that can be a lot of fun. Not many people in this world have a job that they would do for free.
Lastly, it's probably practical to say that most, including myself, really couldn't care less whether Johnny Manziel or Johnny Football, does well or falls flat on his face. Frankly, with the behavior that he has had since high school and seems to be resonating through his young college career, I would say most would like to see him be "made an example of" as in a little karma. What goes around comes around, as a lot of people say, and if that is true… What does that say for Manziel? I don't know, I'm not particularly one of those to believe that justice always prevails, but sometimes it does and when it does, for some reason people feel validated for their feelings about players like Manziel. After all, he hasn't really done anything to endear himself to the "every day college football fan" and aside from his amazing performances on the field, he really doesn't inspire people with the kind of behavior that causes people to lift him up. Manziel, himself, has complained that he is on a pedestal and doesn't like it, and feels that he has a particularly difficult life because of his fame and notoriety as a college football quarterback, and even more notable because of his groundbreaking accomplishment, winning a Heisman Trophy as a freshman in college. I believe that those who willfully step into the spotlight of notoriety, know exactly what they're doing and not too long ago were likely dreaming of being in that very position someday. What boy, who loves sports, hasn't dreamed of one day, having tons of fans falling all over themselves to get his autograph or ask to have their picture taken with him? When you walk into the bright spotlight the way that Manziel has, partying with NBA stars, popular rappers and actors etc., you are willfully inviting everything that goes along with that spotlight of fame. Fame and notoriety always bring with it, the burden of losing anonymity and the freedom to do things as easily as common people in society. The trade-off is hopefully a lot of opportunity, money and attention from other people who were also of similar stature in the public eye. In more simple terms; nobody's going to feel sorry for a a young man who has the world on a string, given a free education and on the verge of cashing in on a professional career that is likely to eclipse tens of millions of dollars. Now is the time for Johnny Football to determine whether or not he can cope with the complication of being one of the more recognizable faces in America, or not. So far, he's not impressing me and from everything I've read, watched or heard, I'm certainly not alone. On the other hand, I do wish him well and I hope that he's able to reach deep down inside of his real self and begins to understand how fortunate he is and begins to appreciate that this is a process and he still has the choice whether or not he wants to take the baton of fame and run with it, or decline the complications of his positions and begins to live life like an ordinary 20-year-old young man. He has all the cards, now he just has to decide whether or not to place them on the table and cash in on a wonderful opportunity for free education and the chance to compete in the NFL as one of the few men talented enough to be paid well to play a sport that can be a lot of fun. Not many people in this world have a job that they would do for free.
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Too much too soon takes away the hope of more to come. Why do the fortunate have such an appetite for MORE? More glory, more stuff and when that too comes easy, it's over the edge in search of more excitement that leads to bad choices. Sad commentary when it all comes too early in life.
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